Yes, I have done over 100+ solo dates!
I have been doing solo dates since I was 20 years old, and they have been life-changing ever since.
My self-love has been up and down over the years, but I have always been consistent with my solo dates (not that I wanna show off).
And I’ve done over 100+ solo dates! How do I know? Well, I created an Instagram highlight of my solo dates, and I hit 100 stories, so I can’t add anymore lol.
I’m going to share with you my Top 5 if you are looking for some solo date ideas.
Let’s dive in.
1 – Going to a Restaurant/Cafe (breakfast, lunch, dinner, dessert, coffee)
This is usually my go-to solo date.
I remember that I used to feel so embarrassed and nervous to eat at a restaurant by myself. But then, I realised that no one really cares. And if they do, it’s 100% a reflection on them and not on you.
Restaurant/cafe solo dates are great. You can go there for breakfast, lunch, dinner, brunch, dessert, or even just for a cup of coffee.
While you’re waiting for your food, you can people-watch, read, or engage in another activity that doesn’t involve your phone.
This is my go-to solo date, especially when I have a busy week. Obviously, you’ve got to fit in your mealtimes, so you can easily turn one of them into a solo date.
This is a good solo date to practice getting used to solo dates. It’s a simple solo date activity, but it can push you out of your comfort zone.
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2 – Nature Walks
This can be at a park, any walking trail, anywhere near water views (especially the ocean), or even in the city.
When I was starting to do solo dates, this was usually my go-to because it’s effortless and you don’t need to worry about what other people think of you. It’s completely normal for someone to go on a nature walk by themselves.
Whenever I want to spice it up, I would get myself a drink before the walk, or get myself food afterwards.
This is a good solo date if you are starting out. Like what I mentioned above, it’s effortless, and it’s also normal for someone to go on a nature walk by themselves. Plus, it’s a great physical health habit!
3 – Beach Days
I love this one because I am a beach girlie.
I don’t need to wait for anyone when it comes to having a beach day. If I feel like a beach day and want to go to the beach, I will go by myself.
When it’s warmer weather, I have a full-on beach day. When it’s colder weather, sometimes it’s just a coastal walk, and I get myself coffee while I’m at it. Either way, I love being by the ocean.
If you are a beach girlie as well and haven’t tried doing beach days as a solo date, I recommend doing this as one!
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4 – Movie in a Cinema
At first, I thought this would be scary, but it isn’t. When you go to the movies in a cinema, it’s completely dark, no one will see you, and you’re just focusing on the movie.
Back when I had a lot of free time (before working in a law firm), I used to go on a movie date every month. I loved it that much.
There’s something fun about watching a movie, having some popcorn, a drink, and just relaxing. It’s different from just doing it at home.
I actually recommend going to the movies as a solo date for beginners because again, it’s dark, no one will see you, and everyone is focused on watching the movie.
5 – Solo Travel
I’ve solo-travelled both internationally and domestically.
I love the feeling of going to the airport, chilling there before my flight, plane rides, and then exploring whatever city I am in. And hotels?? Love!!!
Before hopping on flights, I used to do solo travel within my local area. For example, it would be 40-minute drives, or local small towns, or even just touring my city. When I got more comfortable, it expanded to solo travel.
You truly learn a lot about yourself when you solo travel, and it is a great experience. I recommend trying it at one point in your life if you haven’t done so.
You don’t have to do a huge international trip. You don’t even have to go too far domestically. It can just be a day trip somewhere.
If you really want a solo date that allows you to fully get to know yourself, solo travel is a big one!
To Wrap Up
If you want to see a list of solo date ideas, you can check out this blog post. Solo dates are a great way to get to know yourself and enjoy being in your own company. It has definitely helped me in my life in so many different ways.
If you need to, just take those small steps! Start small with your solo dates. Start by doing them at home. Do a nature walk. Go to the mall. When you’re ready, you can do the more “scarier activities”.
Speaking of small steps, I have a book all about it! It’s available on Amazon for only $11.99AUD if you purchase as a Kindle.
Happy solo dating!
-Lauren 🙂
P.S I recommend you read these blog posts next:
- The Deeper Truth On Why I Started Going on Solo Dates
- Ultimate Beginner Guide to Solo Dates
- How to Make Self-Love a Part of Your Life
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